Author: grangerebol
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growing up in a culture that speaks in sexual language
so much of what we call choice is simply the echo of the world we grew up in.
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the things our children learn in our shadows
a gentle reflection on the quiet lessons children absorb from the parts of us we don’t always see.
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a society of unraised children
we live in a society full of adults who were never truly raised — only trained to perform. this piece explores the generational patterns we inherit, the emotional gaps we carry, and the quiet work of learning to grow up with intention.
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children who get more childhood
some children grow up with schedules and structure, while others grow up with open time and real freedom. this piece explores why unstructured childhood has become a quiet privilege — and what it reveals about parents, society, and the pace of modern life.
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the twenty-minute childhood
children spend most of their days learning how to sit still, follow rules, and manage emotions — leaving only twenty minutes to be fully themselves. this piece explores what happens when play becomes a privilege instead of a right, and how that shapes the adults they’ll become.
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when home becomes a stopover
many families live in motion — from school to after‑school, from one obligation to the next. home becomes a place to shower, eat, and sleep before the next activity begins. this piece explores what happens when presence fades, and how remembering stillness can bring us back to each other.
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